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  • Have you ever had a moment when you were attending a conference, reading a book or a blog post, or even watching the latest Netflix documentary, and had what can only be described as an epiphany? About seven years ago, I had one of these moments! At the encouragement of a great friend I knew…

  • Several years ago I was doing my pre-service ritual on a Sunday morning; which included sipping coffee and gathering my final thoughts while early arrivers made their way into the lobby. As I made small talk; which is not exactly fun for an introvert like myself, the doors to the gym-made-sanctuary were violently swung open…

  • I find out about new subcultures everyday. For example, there’s a Nick Cage subculture. That’s right…the guy we all love as The Family Man now writes, produces, and stars in a handful of underground movies, some of which you can see currently on Netflix. And apparently he has an underground following around these cheesy B-rate…

  • Here’s a personal confession: I have a problem submitting to authority! I know, I know. You’re shocked!  Of course this is not news to anyone who has been around me for any length of time. Is it nature or nurture? Or both? I have no idea. I just know it’s tough for me. Where in…

  • During one of my teaching times in The Gathering for Multiply Church, I started by asking the congregation if their prior week had been perfect. And you know what? Not a single hand went up! I know the concept sounds kind of silly. I mean, of course nobody had a perfect week, because there’s no…

  • As a dad who coaches little kids on the baseball and soccer field, I hear parents say this a lot. “Nobody like a showoff!” We, as parents, teach this to our children because we want to develop a humility within them, right? Some people naturally have greater talents and skills than others; which we encourage,…

  • Do you ever struggle with insecurity? Because I do! And I really have no reason to. As someone who has had every need met from day one, I can’t believe that insecurity is something someone like me would deal with. The good news is that insecurity is becoming less and less of an issue for…

  • The ordination process for the United Methodist Church is a long and tenuous journey. Given the trend of the denomination over the years, it’s easy to see how this slow, arduous process has developed. Essentially those who have made it in want to make sure those who are trying to get it are worthy of the…

  • Centered Set Values: A Better Way

    Are you a leader? Rarely do leaders actually feel like leaders. People think of someone as a leader when he or she starts leading, despite how he or she feels about leadership ability. The truth is all of you are leaders… or at least have the opportunity and even responsibility to lead. If you’re married,…

  • Contending for Contentment

    Have you ever had this thought: “I always thought I’d be further along than I am at this point in my life!”?